Most comes from separated parents

posted on: Dec 13 2011 6:56 by RDugey. Viewed 38 times.

More than 90 per cent of young people who host centres for comprehensive care for adolescents in conflict with the criminal law come from dysfunctional, families where family support has been limited.

In the generality of cases only live with one parent and, sometimes, with grandparents, uncles and other relatives or in the streets. Valuations of specialists attending them thus demonstrate and confirm that testimonies of the protagonists.

Family support is considered essential for the rehabilitation work of adolescents and partner to prevent recidivism. Aware of the benefits of such integration in the process of recovery in some centres therapists work directly with the closest relatives. Teens share the most varied stories about his life. Each contains a different reality, but with the element common to not grow in a nuclear family.

Each case is unique, but the u000amost attributes have made the mistake by negative influences of friendships, bad "letter", abandonment of the home at an early age, taking the streets as a refuge and lack of supervision of their parents.

Are minor, but many of them are already parents. Some were trained as parents in prison and have not met their children. That is why in Najayo are intended to enable an area so that they can receive their children, outside of the days of visits.

Disorders
"When missing one of the two deficiencies, are there because the table is missing one of the legs, and there already is a problem, because inside this adolescent emotional or affective sico area there is a part which is unbalanced, and that emotionally creates a tremendous conflict which leads to all the conditions there," says Valentin Vidal Gresina, mental health specialist, sex, marital and family therapy.

To the specialist, the problem of adolescents u000aIt originates within the family, because he argues that the lack of an appropriate structure brings as a consequence the production of síquicos, mental or emotional trauma. "Falls into a stressful condition, everything that is in a stressful condition needs to defend itself." The first thing that will produce is the feeling of fear. There are primary hunches in person: fear, shame and guilt. Each of them develops a certain type of reaction. When it is afraid, the person tends to defend itself; "when it is fault, tends to undaunted or blame herself, and when it is a shame, it is exempted or is as of screening is," explains.

Emphasizes that the boys feel with little security and very low self-esteem, and do not have a life project stable by the same situation of instability family.

To achieve the social and labour reintegration of adolescents who break the law, Vidal Gresina recommends you first redefine the role of the father u000aand the mother to give him the support that is required, along with institutional and family support networks.

involvement
to father Carlos Montoya Elizondo, director of the Preparatory Institute of juvenile San Cristóbal, one of the serious weaknesses of these young people is the family environment, because they come from families who seek her every day, low income and 1,200,000.

He said that it is that the Centre looks at how to family integrate, in order to make him see that his presence is indispensable, and that the success of a boy after coming out of your support.

Ana Maria Castillo, responsible for re-education Regional de La Vega, understands that the boys can be recovered and carry a reeducation plan are those family gives them much support and follow-up.

Adolescent that changes is which is reeduca. When the family does not give follow-up is difficult u000athe work, because they have no motivation, and often when they go out, relapse.

An ACCOMPLICE of murder by A bad influence
Juan Reyes, (fictional name) came at age 17 to the center of Najayo, and although it has 21 remains there for showing discipline.

Native La Romana, since age seven has raised with her dad, her paternal grandmother, a brother and an aunt, because his parents separated. On weekends and school holidays weekends visiting his mother, who returned to marry and procreate a child.

Is charged with accomplice murder and serving a sentence of five years.
It has that it was left to influence of a coworker she asked him to accompany him to a place where a crime was committed. "I stopped me to take him," he said. He is attending the fourth high school in prison and hopes to continue his studies of hotel and tourism.

rejected for being of black origin
u000du000a Vidal u000aGresina Najayo Centre attends a minor orphan of father, but the mother is ill with a heart problem which he worsened after the rejection of his family to her husband, black origin, which has impacted on his son. The specialist also seeks tou000du000a the mother in the same prison.

Vidal Gresina said that in that young manu000du000a a sense of guilt, because he was a factor in the problemu000du000a health of the mother.

Mother was born with this heart problem and should not become pregnant. He falls in love with and marries the person with the opposition of the parents, by nationality be Haitian. She and her family are clear complexion, with certain economic boom.

Women get pregnant and throughout this period remained with a worsening of heart conditions. At birth the child, family rejection extends towards him, because he was born identical to your dad.

"all this problems does that" u000a"the child is born in a stressful environment," says the therapist family.

Theu000du000a father broke part of the mother to the three years of married, because he could not endure more rejection. He leaves the House, but continues to visit. Until that one day the woman felt helpless and preferred to be removed entirely, if it was not going to live with her in the household.

Father dies when the son was 13 years old. "It is a"u000du000a "difficult period for the majority of young people between 12 and 15 years", said. The young man devoted to dock and steal. He is charged with aggravated robbery.

Positive attitude defines its future
u000du000aWith 59-year-old José Antonio Soriano look back and remember theu000du000a in 1963 when he joined the preparatory children of San Cristóbal with just 10 years, as a recognized "palomo" who lived on the street. Today is employed by the Centre, which serves as Manager of theu000du000a Blacksmithing workshop u000aSince 1978, and taught the teenage interns.

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That Office, and others that have allowed it to earn a living, form a family with children professional and College, he learned there.

"When"u000du000a "I came here I did not know or read or write, but taught me, and I also learned working barber shop, carpentry and Blacksmithing then welding".

Said that he had received strong support from parents who were the Centre then and treatment of love. "What happens is that often the boy arriving here comes from a world where society it has been abused, a family conflict, and when he comes here"u000du000a "the support, so you want to move out seeing the different world".

Has changed his life
u000du000a17-Year-old Francisco (fictitious name), has two years living in the Centre, with penalties for violation. He lived with an aunt and his favorite refuge was the street. He was the second high school and u000atimes was going tou000du000a school.

Says that many friends in quotes, had but thatu000du000a now that he has lived the experience of the Institute has given account that was in the world, but did not know why.

"My was hanging and"u000du000a hanging, but when I fell here with the help of teachers and parentsu000du000a "I have learned things I used to live and not make the same mistakes". He has followed the school and he has learned to work in tailoring andu000du000a Tapestry, by what it when you leave intends to put into practice what they learned and raise his family. "I am a very different person", he said, after make it clear that he does not believe that the solution to the problems of adolescents is to give more years in prison, because that comes without knowing anything becomes more delinquent, and when you leave after 15 years will not come with the mind new.

then mounted his workshop
u000du000aJosé (fictional name) has one year and seven months in the Centre and 18 years of age. He was punished u000aby robbery, it recognizes that walked parrandeando and without mind on the street, which led him to make that mistake.

He lived with his parents and they always worried about him, but never made them case and preferred listening to friends.

Itsu000du000a arrival at the Centre he taught that life is different. She learned electricity, blacksmithing, tailoring, agriculture, using the pesticide and computer science, that she is attending the second Al high school. He says that he has learned to behave better and know that the advice of his parents were for her sake.

When you exit plans to assemble a blacksmith workshop at his home and Excel in electricity. It says there is a workshop that is attended by his father at his home, but that when you leave him serve him.

Relationship PREMATURE that ends in A tragedy
with 14 years, Gabriela Mendoza (fictional name) already maintained a romantic relationship with an adult. His mother learned the day on which the teenager u000aHe committed the crime by which keeps custody at the Institute for girls: involuntary manslaughter of her partner. "He threatened me that if I said it was going to kill me and my family", narrated.

Lived with his mother, a domestic worker separated from the father of the girl six years ago. Each who formed independent family.
Was the seventh course when incurred in the crime, and in his spare time took care of cleaning in the home. His dream is to make Bachelor for studying hospitality and tourism.

Their fifteen years them has being in the House of detention. There, his mother and other relatives he left a sponge cake and her agasajaron with a celebration that she never remembers having earlier received at home.
Was the first time that celebrated me a birthday, recalls. And he adds that his dad not was very good with it and just celebrating birthday to their younger siblings.

in the street from the u000aten years
u000du000a His face is child, but has his life with a firmness of adult. u000du000aIt is 13 years old and from the 10 was Street committing different types of assaults. His real name is John.

Admits that he lived with his mother and stepfather and he didn't stay in the House, therefore preferred the street because he wanted to "find rooms". He sometimes slept in the street and asked if didn't fear responds that no, because tou000du000a He no one puts the hand. It currently has five months as a preventative. He said that there was notice that life is another, he learned to respect and to consider and when you exit will return to his home and school.

The life of Robert, also a fictional name, was no different. It is 16 years old and said ending in a robbery to bring friends. Lived most of the time on the street, and not made her case to the advice of his mother. He says that his desire is to return to the u000au000du000aschool.

"Will not do suffer MOM"
u000du000a"When it comes out I am not going to do what they did and I'm going to wear rather." "At this time I thought to take more care of my mom and not make suffer." "When I think back to school".